Thatismycharacteristic,though。Iamafirmfriendnevertheless,andtobedependedon。DonotforgetwhatIhavesaidnow,asIshallnotoftenrepeatthis。Remember,too,thathappinessinthisworlddependsontheinterestandesteemthatweinspire。
Idonotsaythistoeveryone,asitwouldbeimpossible,butjusttoacertainnumberoffriends。Itisimpossibletofindone’shappinessentirelyinone’sself,withoutbeinganegoist,andIdonotthinksobadlyofyouthatIimagineyoutobeone。
Amanwhomnoonecaresforiswretched,andthemanwhohasfriendsisafraidofgrievingthembybehavingbadly。AsPolytesays,allthisisforthesakeoflettingyouknowthatyoumustdoyourbesttobehavewell,ifyouwanttoprovetomethatyouarenotungratefulformyinterestinyou。Yououghttogetridofthebadhabitofboastingthatyouhaveadoptedthroughfrequentingyoungmenasfoolishasyourself。Dowhateveryourpositionandyourhealthallowyoutodo,providedthatyoudonotcompromisethehonourorthereputationofanyoneelse。
Idonotseethatayoungmaniscalledupontobeaschasteasanun。
Butkeepyourgoodorbadluckinyourloveaffairstoyourself。