memorandaofMrsNorton’s,incase,ifthenegotiationwentoff,hemightfindinthesejournalssomethingonwhichtogroundsomeaccusationagainstherintheecclesiasticalorothercourts!IreadwithamazementtheseriesofletterswhichMrNortonhadpreviouslyaddressedtohiswife,andinwhichhesignshimself’Greenacre。’IshowedtheseletterstothelateLordWynford。Isaid,ifMrsNortonhadbeenmysister,Iwouldhavemadethempublic:andIconsidersheshowedforbearanceandconsiderationinnotmakingthempublic,whenMrNortonadvertisedherinthepapers。MrNortonadmittedtomehisfirmbeliefofhiswife’sinnocenceofthechargeshehadbroughtagainstherandLordMelbourne;andtheselettersofhis,expresslyexculpatedherfromallblame,andendearinglyentreatedhertoreturnandlivewithhimagain。Ithencertainlychangedmyopinion。
IthoughtMrNortonhaddonehiswifethemostcruelinjuryamancouldinflict,andthathewasboundtomakeeverysacrificeandreparationinhispower。Isawnoearthlyreasonwhyherchildrenshouldbewithheldfromher,andrequiredhimtowriteimmediatelytoScotland(wherethechildrenthenwere)tohavethemsenttoLondonforthwith。Inmypresenceandatmydictationhewrotealettertothateffect,andsealedit。I
posteditmyself,andthoughtallwassettled,asthesolestipulationmadebyMrsNortonwasthereturnofherchildren;butMrNortonwasbaseenoughtowriteasecondletter,unbeknownsttome,toforbidtheircoming;
andcometheydidnot。AssoonasIdiscoveredthisactoftreacheryandbreachoffaith,Ithrewupmyofficeofmediator。IremonstratedinseveretermswithMrNorton,andmyintercoursewithhimceased。ThequestionofMrsNorton’sallowancewasnotenteredupon,asmyinterferenceterminatedatthatpoint。Ideemit,however,thesimplestjusticetoMrsNortontosay,thatIfoundherfrankandstraightforwardthroughout:actingstrictlyuptothissentenceinherfirstlettertome——’Heartily,Page131
andasGodismyjudge,Idesiretomakewhatpeaceispossiblebetweenmeandmyhusband,inspiteofthepast。’Sheleftherinterestsentirelyinmyhands;threwnoobstacleinmypath;andneveronceswervedfromthepromisetoabidebywhatevertermsIshouldlaydown。WithMrNorton(thoughhehadappointedmetoact)Ifoundtheexactreverse。Heabusedhiswifeandhiswife’sfamily;heshuffledaboutthemis—statementshecouldnotdeny;hewouldbeboundneitherbyhisverbalpromisenorhiswrittenpledge;andafteracorrespondencebeganinNovember,anddidnotendtillJanuary,alleffortatarrangementwasgivenup。Onacalmreviewofthesecircumstances,itcanscarcelybewonderedat,thatIutterlychangedmyopinion,andthattheadviceIgavetothewriteroftheGreenacrelettersin1837wasnotthesameadviceIhadgiventothesupposedinjuredhusbandof1836。IgaveMrNorton,onthefancycasehesubmittedtocounsel,good,sound,honestadvice,tothebestofmyability;andIgavehimthelikeadvicewhenhisrealcasebecameknowntome。Ifhehadabidedbythatadvice,andbyhiswrittenpledge,thecuriosityoftheworldwouldnotnowbegratifiedbydetailsofhisprivateaffairs,whichhecompelsotherstopublishpiecemealfortheirownjustification。Iamsorry,forhissake,thatsuchpublicationevertookplace;andIamgladforMrsNorton’ssake;becauseIconsiderthereneverwasamoredeeply—injuredwoman,andthathisconducttohercertainlyhadbeenmarkedby’thegrossestcruelty,injustice,andinconsistency,’thateveranymandisplayed。MrNortonmayattackmewithimpunity;Ishallnotanswerhim;butIwillnotallowhimtopersuadethepublicthatthereisanyinconsistencyinanopinionformedonathoroughknowledgeofhiscase;whichopinion,nowthatallthecircumstancesofthatcasearemoregenerallyknown,hewill,Ithink,findtobeuniversal。