tenancesomeextraordinarily,istomaketheminsolent,andtherestdiscontent;becausetheymayclaimadue.Butcontrariwise,infavor,tousemenwithmuchdifferenceandelectionisgood;foritmakeththepersonspreferredmorethankful,andtherestmoreofficious:becauseallisoffavor.Itisgooddiscretion,nottomaketoomuchofanymanatthefirst;becauseonecannotholdoutthatproportion.Tobegoverned(aswecallit)
byoneisnotsafe;foritshowssoftness,andgivesafreedom,toscandalanddisreputation;forthose,thatwouldnotcensureorspeakillofamanimme—
diately,willtalkmoreboldlyofthosethataresogreatwiththem,andtherebywoundtheirhonor.
Yettobedistractedwithmanyisworse;foritmakesmentobeofthelastimpression,andfullofchange.Totakeadviceofsomefewfriends,iseverhonorable;forlookers—onmanytimesseemorethangamesters;andthevalebestdiscovereththehill.Thereislittlefriendshipintheworld,andleastofallbetweenequals,whichwaswonttobemag—
nified.Thatthatis,isbetweensuperiorandin—