Cle。Yourecollectattherightmoment,Stranger,anddonotmisstheopportunitywhichtheargumentaffordsofsayingawordinseason。
Ath。Ithankyou。Wewillsaytohimwhoisbornofgoodparents-O
myson,yououghttomakesuchamarriageaswisemenwouldapprove。
Nowtheywouldadviseyouneithertoavoidapoormarriage,norspeciallytodesirearichone;butifotherthingsareequal,alwaystohonourinferiors,andwiththemtoformconnections;-thiswillbeforthebenefitofthecityandofthefamilieswhichareunited;fortheequableandsymmetricaltendsinfinitelymoretovirtuethantheunmixed。Andhewhoisconsciousofbeingtooheadstrong,andcarriedawaymorethanisfittinginallhisactions,oughttodesiretobecometherelationoforderlyparents;
andhewhoisoftheoppositetemperoughttoseektheoppositealliance。Lettherebeonewordconcerningallmarriages:-Everymanshallfollow,notafterthemarriagewhichismostpleasingtohimself,butafterthatwhichismostbeneficialtothestate。Forsomehoweveryoneisbynaturepronetothatwhichislikesttohimself,andinthiswaythewholecitybecomesunequalinpropertyandindisposition;andhencethereariseinmoststatestheveryresultswhichweleastdesiretohappen。Now,toaddtothelawanexpressprovision,notonlythattherichmanshallnotmarryintotherichfamily,northepowerfulintothefamilyofthepowerful,butthattheslowernaturesshallbecompelledtoenterintomarriagewiththequicker,andthequickerwiththeslower,mayawakenangeraswellaslaughterinthemindsofmany;forthereisadifficultyinperceivingthatthecityoughttobewellmingledlikeacup,inwhichthemaddeningwineishotandfiery,butwhenchastenedbyasobererGod,receivesafairassociateandbecomesanexcellentandtemperatedrink。Yetinmarriagenooneisabletoseethatthesameresultoccurs。Whereforealsothelawmustletalonesuchmatters,butweshouldtrytocharmthespiritsofmenintobelievingtheequabilityoftheirchildren’sdispositiontobeofmoreimportancethanequalityinexcessivefortunewhentheymarry;andhimwhoistoodesirousofmakingarichmarriageweshouldendeavourtoturnasidebyreproaches,not,however,byanycompulsionofwrittenlaw。