Andyetthecompensationsofcalamityaremadeapparenttotheunderstandingalso，afterlongintervalsoftime。Afever，amutilation，acrueldisappointment，alossofwealth，alossoffriends，seemsatthemomentunpaidloss，andunpayable。Butthesureyearsrevealthedeepremedialforcethatunderliesallfacts。
Thedeathofadearfriend，wife，brother，lover，whichseemednothingbutprivation，somewhatlaterassumestheaspectofaguideorgenius；foritcommonlyoperatesrevolutionsinourwayoflife，terminatesanepochofinfancyorofyouthwhichwaswaitingtobeclosed，breaksupawontedoccupation，orahousehold，orstyleofliving，andallowstheformationofnewonesmorefriendlytothegrowthofcharacter。Itpermitsorconstrainstheformationofnewacquaintances，andthereceptionofnewinfluencesthatproveofthefirstimportancetothenextyears；andthemanorwomanwhowouldhaveremainedasunnygarden-flower，withnoroomforitsrootsandtoomuchsunshineforitshead，bythefallingofthewallsandtheneglectofthegardener，ismadethebanianoftheforest，yieldingshadeandfruittowideneighbourhoodsofmen。
SPIRITUALLAWS
ThelivingHeaventhyprayersrespect，Houseatonceandarchitect，Quarryingman\'srejectedhours，Buildstherewitheternaltowers；
Soleandself-commandedworks，Fearsnotunderminingdays，Growsbydecays，And，bythefamousmightthatlurksInreactionandrecoil，Makesflametofreeze，andicetoboil；