Heusedtosaythatitgrievedhimtofindthatforthefriendsofhislaterlifehehadnotthewarmaffectionofhisyouth。CertainlyinhisearlylettersfromCambridgehegivesproofsofverystrongfriendshipforHerbertandFox;butnooneexcepthimselfwouldhavesaidthathisaffectionforhisfriendswasnot,throughoutlife,ofthewarmestpossiblekind。Inservingafriendhewouldnotsparehimself,andprecioustimeandstrengthwerewillinglygiven。Heundoubtedlyhad,toanunusualdegree,thepowerofattachinghisfriendstohim。Hehadmanywarmfriendships,buttoSirJosephHookerhewasboundbytiesofaffectionstrongerthanweoftenseeamongmen。Hewroteinhis’Recollections,’\"I
haveknownhardlyanymanmorelovablethanHooker。\"
Hisrelationshiptothevillagepeoplewasapleasantone;hetreatedthem,oneandall,withcourtesy,whenhecameincontactwiththem,andtookaninterestinallrelatingtotheirwelfare。SometimeafterhecametoliveatDownhehelpedtofoundaFriendlyClub,andservedastreasurerforthirtyyears。Hetookmuchtroubleabouttheclub,keepingitsaccountswithminuteandscrupulousexactness,andtakingpleasureinitsprosperouscondition。EveryWhit—Mondaytheclubusedtomarchroundwithbandandbanner,andparadedonthelawninfrontofthehouse。Therehemetthem,andexplainedtothemtheirfinancialpositioninalittlespeechseasonedwithafewwellwornjokes。Hewasoftenunwellenoughtomakeeventhislittleceremonyanexertion,butIthinkheneverfailedtomeetthem。
HewasalsotreasureroftheCoalClub,whichgavehimsomework,andheactedforsomeyearsasaCountyMagistrate。
Withregardtomyfather’sinterestintheaffairsofthevillage,Mr。