Wakingupfromdreams,books,andvisionsofcollegehonors,inwhichfortwoyears,HarryEsmondhadbeenimmersed,hefoundhimself,instantly,onhisreturnhome,inthemidstofthisactualtragedyoflife,whichabsorbedandinterestedhimmorethanallhistutorhadtaughthim。Thepersonswhomhelovedbestintheworld,andtowhomheowedmost,werelivingunhappilytogether。
Thegentlestandkindestofwomenwassufferingillusageandsheddingtearsinsecret:themanwhomadeherwretchedbyneglect,ifnotbyviolence,wasHarry\'sbenefactorandpatron。Inhouseswhere,inplaceofthatsacred,inmostflameoflove,thereisdiscordatthecentre,thewholehouseholdbecomeshypocritical,andeachliestohisneighbor。Thehusband(oritmaybethewife)
lieswhenthevisitorcomesin,andwearsagrinofreconciliationorpolitenessbeforehim。Thewifelies(indeed,herbusinessistodothat,andtosmile,howevermuchsheisbeaten),swallowshertears,andliestoherlordandmaster;liesinbiddinglittleJackeyrespectdearpapa;liesinassuringgrandpapathatsheisperfectlyhappy。Theservantslie,wearinggravefacesbehindtheirmaster\'schair,andpretendingtobeunconsciousofthefighting;andso,frommorningtillbedtime,lifeispassedinfalsehood。Andwiseacrescallthisaproperregardofmorals,andpointoutBaucisandPhilemonasexamplesofagoodlife。
IfmyladydidnotspeakofhergriefstoHarryEsmond,mylordwasbynomeansreservedwheninhiscups,andspokehismindveryfreely,biddingHarryinhiscoarseway,andwithhisbluntlanguage,bewareofallwomenascheats,jades,jilts,andusingotherunmistakablemonosyllablesinspeakingofthem。Indeed,\'twasthefashionoftheday,asImustown;andthere\'snotawriterofmytimeofanynote,withtheexceptionofpoorDickSteele,thatdoesnotspeakofawomanasofaslave,andscornanduseherassuch。Mr。Pope,Mr。Congreve,Mr。Addison,Mr。Gay,everyoneof\'em,singinthiskey,eachaccordingtohisnatureandpoliteness,andlouderandfoulerthanallinabuseisDr。
Swift,whospokeofthemashetreatedthem,worstofall。