Ihave,asIsaidbefore,learnedtheEnglishlawpiecemeal,bysufferingunderit。Myhusbandisalawyer;andhehastaughtitme,byexercisingovermytormentedandrestlesslife,everyquirkandnibbleofitstyranny;ofitsacknowledgedtyranny;——acknowledged,againIsay,notbywailing,angry,despairingwomen,butbyChancellors,ex-Chancellors,legalreformers,andmembersofbothHousesofParliament。Andyetnothingisdone!indeed,whentheSolicitor-General,May10th,inthissession,informedtheHousethatthedelayedMarriageBillwouldbebroughtforward\"assoonastheHousehadexpressedanopinionontheTestamentaryJurisdictionBill,\"therewasagood-humouredlaughattheveryvagueprospectheldout,——butnobodymurmured;forPage146
nobodygreatlycaredwhenitshouldcomeon;orwhetheritevercameonatall。
Nevertheless,solongashumannatureiswhatitis,somemarriagesmustbeunhappymarriages,insteadoffollowingthattheoryofintimateandsacredunionwhichtheyoughttofulfil:andthequestionis,therefore,whatistobetherelationofpersonslivinginastateofalienation,insteadofastateofunion,——alltheexistingrulesfortheirsocialpositionbeingbasedonthefirstalternative,——namely,thattheyareinastateofunion,——andonthesuppositionthatmarriageisindissoluble,thoughParliamenthasnowdecidedthatitisacivilcontract?Divorcedorundivorced,itisabsolutelynecessarythatthelawshouldstepin,toarrangethatwhichisdisarrangedbythismostunnaturalcondition。Itbecomesperfectlyabsurdthatthelawwhichappointsthehusbandlegalprotectorofthewoman,shouldnotfailinghimwhohasceasedtobeaprotector,andhasbecomeaverypowerfulfoeitselfundertakeherprotection。Shestandstowardsthelaw,byanillustrationwhichI
haverepeatedlymadeuseof,——inthelightofanill-usedinferior;andsheistheonlyinferiorinEnglandwhocannotclaimtobesoprotected。
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